Giving my best, I guess

“So you want me to give you a list of things that I want, and then you’re going to surprise me by giving me one of the things that I told you that I wanted you to surprise me with?” A lot of things have helped form my attitudes about giving gifts, but I think

Handfasting with Caffeina

I wrote an article about Caffeina last year, and she’s been on my mind (at least in the mornings) ever since.Because it’s something that we share, I thought it a reasonable suggestion that our handfasting include Caffeina, and my partner agreed.Here now is the ritual we used, not including the spontaneous bits. Opening The circle